Do i have to pay for my bf dental work?? i mean he only pays for 1/2 the rent, and 1/2 of the internet?

i have to pay for: food, pg%26amp;E, formula,diapers, baby stuff,gas,babysitter. and on top of that i have to deal with his bad attitude. he doesnt want to be bother at all. he cant watch the baby for 5 mins, because he goes nuts, he cant even take the trash out,not even sex, because of his game.f*ck!! i tried to tell him that i need help he says he cant, doenst make alot, but he complains alot, he doesnt like food blah blah, yet he always want to have bbqs, which i have to pay for, buy presents for his family. i told him to get a part time job so he get what he wants %26amp; help me out alittle and he says " i cant im too tired" when he only drives around. i already told him im not responsible for any of sh*t anymore, hes 5 yrs older than and should be taking care of his daughter!!! am i wrong for not paying for his dental??

Do i have to pay for my bf dental work?? i mean he only pays for 1/2 the rent, and 1/2 of the internet?
My suggestion...tell him he has X months (be realistic...it may take a while to find employment depending on your locale). Tell him he has to come up with X dollars per month, or hand over X % of his paychecks ASAP.





Tell him if he doesn't do that, then you're walking. Don't say it as a threat, but as something that will be forced onto you. You can't do everything yourself. If he really wanted to be there, he would be doing all those things and more.....and you know it.





I hate ultimatiums, but you have a child....your responsibility is to him/her. Make sure the father figure is responsible, contributing, and that they see a healthy relationship!





sorry, I know this is a bit harsh...but hope it helps.
Reply:sorry to say but its you're fault for letting him get away with that crap you picked a loser...move on
Reply:I would let his teeth fall out and kick him to the curb, you got yourself a lazy a.s.s. who doesn't want responsibility so you need to be strong and say bye to him and find yourself a better man.
Reply:you have a bad husband. you should get divorced
Reply:You sold yourself out, didn't you? Living with a man, paying his way, sleeping with him, having babies with a loser. You're wrong about a lot of things, paying his dental work included
Reply:honey your crazy if you stay with him believe me it will get worsse
Reply:Only thing you should be paying for is a locksmith to kick him out, or a moving van to move yourself out. You are being taken advantage of, it shouldn't be tolerated.
Reply:Sounds to me like you would be better off on your own. Through out the bum and before you ever get pregnant again, make sure you have a real partner who shares in responsibilities and marries you first.
Reply:No you are not wrong. It's his bills not yours. The longer you let him get away with it, the longer he will act this way. He is very selfish and not willing to help at all. I would give him an ultimatum that he either shares the work load, the bills and the care of the baby, or hit the road. It will be cheaper for you if hes' gone.
Reply:Yes...dont pay for that!! This guy sounds like a lazy no good leech! You need to do something that will light fire under his a** and get him to step up a little.
Reply:Holy Moly, how can you put up with someone like that.


Move out and get you a real Man.
Reply:Absolutely not! You shouldn't have to support him if he can't even help with his daughter! Tell him to either start contributing or find someone else to support him.
Reply:Well, I am bias and not in 'like or love' with him::: I THINK YOU COULD DO BETTER BY YOURSELF! ACCORDING TO YOU, WHAT ''DO'' YOU NEED HIM FOR?





IT is not wise to stay with a man ''just because he is daddy'', when he is not even playing THAT ROLE EITHER!





You are YOUNG and not bad looking, so why not free yourself for a grown man who would accept you and your child. Some good men also like to cook! IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITIES OF BEING HAPPY...CAUSE IF YOU KEEP RIDING THIS SAME OLD HORSE, YOU ARE ONLY GOING TO GET KICKED!





ONLY YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU AND THE KIDS HAPPINESS.....GOOD LUCK.
Reply:Your the one letting me do this to you. You need to stand up to your standers and quit letting him wal all over you. Tell him pay the bills to or HE"S out. Hun don't pay for his dental work
Reply:You my dear, are being taken advantage of by your b/f. I can guarantee you that he will stay with you and make your life miserable as long as YOU ALLOW HIM TO! Tell him to go mooch off of someone else. IF he can't help at least with the babysitting, food, utilities half way, then he is taking advantage of you! He also sounds like he is depressed, and needs to get some counseling, but I bet he won't admit he needs help. Hon, in my 60 yrs. I have found you can't help someone that isn't ready to accept help. Is all you are doing now, is raising him too, along with your kids. He needs to GO! AND YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE NOT WRONG IN NOT WANTING TO PAY FOR HIS DENTAL WORK!!!!!!!!!Also if you are keeping him around just because of the baby, you are doing that baby of his no favors!!!!!! That baby is going to grow up either just like him, or hating him and YOU for not getting rid of him in the first place!
Reply:Sounds like you have a free loader on your hands. Kick him out!!